Happiness and Love
Happiness+/- is purely emotional. (Many things are a polarity with a positive and a negative side, including your emotions
and love. Polarity is represented in Psycanics with this sign
+/-.) Your happiness+/- (happiness or pain) is how you feel
emotionally, positive or negative, at any given moment. The only
happiness that exists is your feelings of satisfaction, optimism, confidence,
enthusiasm, love and joy. The only unhappiness and pain that exists are
your negative emotions such as anger, fear, sadness, loneliness, guilt,
hate, resentment, anxiety, grief, etc.
Despite appearances, happiness and
pain are NEVER the events themselves, but rather how you feel,
the emotions that you experience, during and after the events of your
life. For any given event, human emotions can be anything, including totally
opposite. For example, compare how most Americans felt about the fall
of the World Trade Towers on September 11, 2001, to how some Arabs (Al
Qaeda) felt about that event.
More examples: You can be rich and unhappy; you can be poor and
happy. You can be married and happy or unhappy. You can be single
and happy or unhappy. For any positive external situation you
can name, I can name someone who lacks it and is happy; and someone
who has it and is unhappy. For any negative external situation
you can name, I can name you someone that has it and is happy;
and someone who does not have it and is unhappy. There is no correspondence
between external conditions and psycanic experience.
Psycanics
proves formally and absolutely that external events NEVER cause
human emotions, and therefore, are NEVER the cause of happiness
or of pain. Psycanics shows that what causes the emotions, and therefore
happiness and pain, is ALWAYS an internal mechanism in each BEing. And
it shows it exactly how that mechanism works.
This is tremendously
good news for the human race. If your happiness depended on
being able to control external events to produce only the good ones to
be happy, and on having of power to avoid or stop the bad ones to avoid
your pain and suffering, there would be no hope for human happiness. Nobody
who has ever lived has had sufficient power to control most of the external
events in their life.
Most people struggle to get and hoard material things to
create the internal experiences of happiness, freedom, and security.
The only way any human being will ever achieve constant and permanent
happiness and love is by learning to control the mechanism within
hir that generates these energies/experiences. (This is why
both Buddha and Jesus taught that "The Kingdom of Heaven is within").
Most
people do believe that external events cause their emotions
and therefore their happiness and pain. Therefore, they live trying
to control their experience, their emotions, their happiness and pain,
by controlling the external world to force it to be as they think it should
be.
They try to control other people, what they say and do; and this is
the root of all personal conflicts, and a very obvious in families.
And most people struggle to get and hoard material things to
create the internal experiences of happiness, freedom, and security. This
strategy, called the External Quest, never succeeds for very long; and
those who live by it never achieve real happiness or love.
Your emotions
and your love, and therefore your happiness and unhappiness,
are determined by factors within you, over which you have total control
once you understand the mechanism. That knowledge and control is the only
way you will ever reach a state of permanent happiness. It is the only
way you will ever reach a state of loving relationships with every body
all the time. It is the only way you will ever eliminate your
neurotic behaviors, compulsions and addictions. It is the only way you
will ever achieve serenity and true spiritual advancement.
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